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Defining Dyslexia

For parents and carers

Your child has been assessed. What happens now?

The report explains how your child learns. The next few weeks are about turning that into a small number of changes at home and at school, and about how you talk to your child about it.

Step by step

Six things worth doing first

In roughly this order. None of it is urgent in the sense of needing to happen this week, but doing it in this order tends to keep things calm and manageable.

  1. 01

    Understand the report

    Read the summary and conclusions first. You do not need to understand every test score to use a report well, the description of strengths, difficulties and recommendations is what matters day to day.

  2. 02

    Talk to your child

    Explain what the assessment found in a few honest sentences, pitched at their age. Dyslexia is neither a disaster nor a superpower. It explains why some things take more effort, and it says nothing about how clever they are.

  3. 03

    Share it with school

    Usually the SENCo, along with the class teacher or form tutor. A short conversation achieves far more than emailing a document and hoping it is read.

  4. 04

    Prioritise the recommendations

    A report can contain a long list. Families and schools do not need to do everything at once. Two or three well-chosen priorities will do more good than twenty half-implemented ones.

  5. 05

    Keep what already works

    Before adding anything new, note the strategies and support already in place that are helping. Those are worth protecting.

  6. 06

    Decide whether more support would help

    For some children the recommendations in the report, applied well at home and school, are enough. Others benefit from school support, specialist teaching, or input from a different professional.

Talking about it

How to explain dyslexia to your child

Children usually already know that something is harder for them than for other people. A diagnosis often comes as a relief, provided the framing is right.

What tends to help

  • Being straightforward: this is why reading and spelling take you longer
  • Separating effort from ability, clearly and repeatedly
  • Naming specific things they are genuinely good at
  • Explaining that there are practical things that make it easier
  • Asking what they would actually find helpful in class

What tends not to

  • Presenting it as a deficit or something to be sad about
  • Presenting it as a superpower. Most children can tell that is not the whole story
  • Reading the whole report aloud to them
  • Treating it as a reason to lower expectations
  • Never mentioning it again after the first conversation

Working with school

Helping school understand the assessment

A report is most useful when the people teaching your child understand the profile it describes, not just the conclusion on the front page.

Who to speak to

The SENCo or SEND lead usually coordinates support, but the class teacher or form tutor is the person your child sits in front of every day. Both matter.

What to bring

Your two or three priority recommendations, what already seems to work at home, and any questions the report raised for you.

What to ask

What the school is already doing, what it can adjust, and how you will both know in a term's time whether it is helping.

Specialist teaching

Would specialist dyslexia tuition help?

Sometimes. An assessment can identify the specific areas where structured, targeted teaching would make a difference, but not every child whose assessment identifies dyslexia needs a tutor.

Where it can help

  • Decoding and reading accuracy
  • Spelling and the structure of written English
  • Getting ideas onto paper
  • Study strategies and revision
  • Organisation and independence
  • Confidence with learning after a difficult few years

Good specialist teaching is structured and cumulative, and it is informed by the profile in the report rather than being the same programme for everyone.

Choosing a specialist tutor: what to check

  • Relevant specialist qualifications in SpLD or dyslexia, not general tutoring alone
  • Genuine experience of teaching dyslexic learners
  • Experience with your child's age group and stage
  • Willingness to read and work from the assessment report
  • A structured, cumulative teaching approach rather than ad-hoc homework help
  • Sensible communication with you, and with school where that is appropriate
  • Clarity about what they will work on, and how progress will be reviewed
  • Most importantly, whether your child feels comfortable with them

Defining Dyslexia does not recommend individual tutors. Professional membership bodies such as PATOSS maintain their own directories of specialist practitioners.

Knowledge Centre

Further reading for parents

Written for the weeks after an assessment.